Sad story in the X'mas eve :(.

X'mas day.. "Happy day.... the day of joy!!!" All these word never come out in my X'mas day. Why?? (Gonna ask Santa). Let me begin my "True" story.

In the midnight... I smsed "her","Hi...its Christmas tomolo.. are free to catch a movie tonight? ... The XXXXX is nice movie. Hope can watch with u."

She didn't reply (2am... should be slept).

Coming morning, she replied:" Sry o, my nephew full month... got guest coming."

Then I send" How about a late night or midnight show? Since we're not working the next day. Later can just walk back" (Cinema near our house).

She replied:" Okies~ what movie we watching?".

I replied:" The XXXX and XXX was nice :)".

She replied:" Ok... I asked around my fren too."

I STUNED...... Why suddenly come out a fren :( ....

I replied:" U wanna bring ur friend ah? Haha... ok. Let me know h0w many, I will book the tickets".

She replied:" Okies ;)!".

Even it start to become far from my 1st planning, but doesn't matter. My purpose was date "her" anyway. So in the launch time, I quickly ran out and buy a present for her XD.

When I happilly reached Office. She sends me a message:" Hee.... snowball effect, now got 5 ppl wanna go. U dun "mind" hor?"

My vane nearly burst. “Sure no problem... u sure only 5 hor? I wanna book d...”

She replied:" Heee...I check again."

I replied:" O.....K......I....E....D. But my office release early today I will go back home 1st."

When I reached home..... I message her to confirm:" I buy the tickets now ok?"

She replied:”.... my friend all not going ler".

I happied and reply:" Too bad, now we can watch "together" d." X))).

Then she replied:" ...my other fren invite us( not including me) to have a bbq at "his" house."

Me :" .......... ............ .................... ..............".




The moral or the stories are:" Never ask a gal for a movie with any option allowance!"
2nd moral:" When a gal said: U dun "mind" hor?" means:" U CANNOT MIND TO REJECT IT, SINCE I SAID SO POLITELY".


Aiks.... think this year Xmas eve. I will sleep again at home :(.....Story End.

Have u meet a "Dinosaur" today>?

Guys... as long they r normal, not gay and not attached (tightly).

90% of them (Including me) -> Watch and interested on making new friends (gal).

10% was those -> Watch but only make friend with their own (own pet own happy).

But for those amateurs... so call noob lovers and those without any love experience... so call kukubird... it was hard for them to woo gal (directly).

Got 1.look, 2.talent & 3.wealthy one, mostly shoot the host... face to face no problem. Target can be anyone.

But 90% above of the newbie’s don't fulfill or lack of certain requirements. So what to do?
Making friend online was the easiest way. Few click of mouse... a list of friend finding cooperation or public free friend side, Facebook, Friendster...... etc.
Mostly was a nice place to start.

Yet... that was not easy to identify... Is the girl really pretty? Izzit really her? How many % of confident level "she" was the exactly same as the one u watch online?

Sad today say...but, a lot of their photo... were modified (to attract guys).
Got some... gal (We so call "Dinosaur"). Why? Cause they were good at toking.... chatting skills best and of cause they have some nice photo's (Modified).
Say about good one 1st...

They got some common characteristic that:-
1. They good at flatter guy.
2. Their mostly have they mental thinking of a princes... that believe in fairy tales.
3. They got nice voice. Their tune of voice mostly very "pretty" and seductive.
4. They were someone that knows what u do everyday.
5. Their phone bill was "free", why? Cos when they start to use and chat... they won’t care.
6. They are good drinker and always give u the portion of wine what u can drink (so u can continuous to drink with them).

Then about bad one...
Only one was... they mostly were either Fat or not pretty. We called them "Dinosaurs"

It's not wrong that they can make friend with everyone. But.. ... it just break people heart while guy's knew their "girl" friend online... actually just some modified "photos".
Aiks... I knew 1... even make their picture facial etc to some models. ( Computer technology).

They were good in nature, but if they have any chance... They will "eat" u in one mouth just like a dinosaur.

P/S: Pong me please....:)

Fate or man made? A cross on the diary.

Just write a short 1 today, so hope can make it short and sweet.

As a day before holiday. I get an invitation for an movie. (As I wrote in 1st post those gals). People just like to go out before any festival.

I was happy that can go out with the people I admire for more then 5 years (Maybe I will wrote her story some other day). Maybe the invitation was given by the other 1. But the reason sufficient enough to cancel off all my plan tonight and go for a movie.

As we watched the movie, "Alvin the Chipmunks". A great movie and an opportunity given by my other friend (male). He sat in between the 2 gals, causes "She" sit right beside me. And ofcos, I was nervous. She was always so daring and I just wish to offer my jacket to her since was so cold in the cinema. .... (Skip the movie part, nth happen in between since I really not dare to do anythings in... ). I was just... nice to watch with her till the show end ( I really gratefull and pray to the god at that moment).

Nervous just keep make me can't perform a normal speaking. But of cos, poor self expression skills and wrong intersecting of the conversations just make a bad ending of this date.

She stayed near me and we got the same idea to getting the train till the end then sit back from the last station. What a nice chance again, but it just took my "thinking" time 40mins to the destination.

I was going to sent her home, when she reach. Her father called and going to fetch her. So I decided just wait with her... the moment I say out that wanna wait she till he father reach. Her old fren"gal" passed by (12:30am - Miracle) and accompany her. What thinking in mind just clear off. My chance to express my real feeling to her need to get cover again.

And she just pass by ( with her father again) and cancel off my sms that to express some of my feeling to her. It was just chilled people heart down.

Some time, fate this kinda things..... Just no way to express by word.

Can't sleep tonight. Any 1 have the same feeling before? Please come and share some thought.

Some reason that why man (in singapore) was loney..."Me" Version

This was my 1st post, so I will start with Teenager version (I am still young). Debating about teenage loners, and will use an example of my own personal experience.

Now days, portable device anywhere. By the advancing of the technologies, enhancing of the device features. People can have their own communication network anywhere, entertainment just a click of finger. From the sociological aspect, people cannot stop communicate to each other and life alone (at least for city life). Yet... all those ease of the technology, let people can create network by their own, communication to themselves.

Huh? Feeling something’s wrong? Who the earths that all the while talk to themselves? No need to question so much ... why? Cause now u already talking (thinking and communicate to make discussion by ourselves, ha-ha) Facts but not actually true. The point is people able to "talk" to themselves by the "feedback" from the portable devices - PDAs, MP3players, PSPs etc.

Teenagers get "entertained" by themselves so that need not talk to people to keep themselves company in the public area like in MRT, Shopping center, canteen, even toilet.... and all other places that u cant imagine. Became people's habit that "networking" by their own. Geez..... sounds very cold. Imagine advancing technologies and reducing the "human" and "human" communications.

Reason why??? Too many to list.. Maybe I provide an example from my own ... Why a guy will become loners.

1 day...launch time. I saw a friend (female) online in msn. It's since so long that I didn't saw her. So we chat a while. Of cos basically just some " Hi, how r u?" the reply "Still ok lor, still fine" etc. But we use to be some good old friend. So the conversation became more and more interesting. Then when proceed until the exciting part (not censored stuff). Launch time end, all need to back to station.

She asks:" Why always lonely ah? Can ask me and friend go out mar ;)."
I stun, so think for a while. Then I said:"Hey, how about we meet up tomolo and catch a movie, since we stay so near. 5 minutes way".
Then the gal said:" Ha-ha... sure. But I don't want to let ur gf beat up ;p".
Then I reply " Don't worried, fren fren watch movie don’t mind de ;p".
Then gal reply " Hee, Ok let's see".
Conversation suspended till I off work.... (But the fire & passion of me to watch movie already on).

Few hours pass then I felt abit anxious. So I sms her, " So how about movie?”
She replied:" Should be can lar... I ask another fren (Gal) to follow me go, she go I go ;p".
I sms directly to the gal she mention, and she agree to go for the movie happily.

Next day morning, the day that we going to watch movie. We 3 people on MSN together, they 2 start to discuss again... Suddenly her fren say she cannot go, due to the "XXX" reason. How about the XXX day (the day that she knew I going work). I felt like get rejected.

But she was a nice gal, so she replied:" Maybe I still will go.... see how"..... I felt recovered by a little bit.

Without failure, I book a pair tickets instead...

I happily wait for her for the movie... till the movie going to start. She Smsed :" Sry, think I really cant go d... next time bah".

Ooo oo.... a feeling of piercing and cutting the heart. "I get flied aeroplane".

Feel that is a stupid story right? But this appears again and again for other people. “I realized this, when I drinking with other fren (male).

Think got abit out of topic: p... (like more on personel).

Anyway, please feel free to leave some comment.

I will carry on more for the Real Life story.